Small Instances of Violence in the Checkout Line

This is a shout out to everyone whose never worked in customer service. Having worked almost exclusively in retail and food service, it’s gotten really easy to spot you. You’re the person who’s sulking over there about not having the right nut butter, or tricolored quinoa, or $12 maca chocolate bar in stock. Or you’re…

Bottoming & Consent

I began with the intention to write a love letter to tops, but in the process I realized that my most recent experiences with dominants were imperfect; that I needed to consider my boundaries and desires before I adventure further into the land of kink. I started writing in earnest, in large part inspired by…